I Told My Family That Starting October 20th, I’d Stop Buying Christmas Gifts for Anyone Over 18—Grandkids Only. This Is What Happened

I Told My Family That Starting October 20th, I’d Stop Buying Christmas Gifts for Anyone Over 18—Grandkids Only. This Is What

a shopping rule. I was also changing the way I approached the season.

What I Learned About Family, Gifts, and Boundaries

Looking back, I don’t think the lesson was that adults shouldn’t exchange Christmas gifts. Some families love doing that, and there’s nothing wrong with it.

The lesson was that a family tradition should be allowed to evolve when the old version no longer works for the people involved.

Here are the things I would tell anyone considering a similar change.

1. Give People Notice

October 20th worked for me

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