- 150 per guest, the guest is expected to give at least $150.
- Couples sometimes view gifts as helping recover wedding expenses.
Although this tradition still exists in some cultures and communities, many etiquette experts now consider it outdated or inappropriate. Modern wedding etiquette generally emphasizes that guests are invited to celebrate the marriage — not to financially reimburse the event.
Critics of the practice argue that:
- Guests should never feel financially pressured to attend a wedding.
- People have different income levels and responsibilities.
- Weddings are voluntary celebrations chosen by the couple.
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